While I hesitantly consider myself a sex writer, I more readily identify as a sex reader. I read many more words and articles than I produce. With this large swath of writing that I am consuming, I hear more and more about the orgasm gap that exists between men and…

Sometimes I like to retreat and hide from the world and reality. I will immerse myself in activities and fade away from everything else. Solitary distractions.

Sometimes I like to be chased. I often do so much of the chasing and initiating that I’ll fantasize of someone wanting me so…

November Writing Challenge

It has been nearly two years since I discovered and started reading articles on Medium. I’m sure it will come as no surprise that what first lured me in was an article about a taboo sexual fantasy. …

iPoetry-The Short Place Prompt

How could I ever forget the spring break when you disappeared
Took a week to hear from you, and by then, you sounded different, weird
I eventually put together the pieces of the puzzle exactly as I feared
You ran off to Ohio to cheat on me with an older man sporting a…

The idea and act of mutual masturbation has turned me on for as long as I can remember.

Aside from the numerous health benefits such as relaxed muscles, improved sleep, the release of endorphins, and reduced stress, mutual masturbation can also provide a new way to be intimate with a…

We hear it often and in different forms:

“It’s not the destination; it’s the journey.”

“Good things come to those who wait.”

“Pleasure is found first in anticipation, later in memory.”

“Anticipation of pleasure is, in itself, a very considerable pleasure.”

Essentially, all of these statements highlight the importance and…

Tarot Tuesday

I celebrated my 38th birthday a week ago today. I’ve had a very enjoyable birthday week. Nothing too fancy just quality time with the ones that I love.

I have never done a “Year Ahead Spread” with tarot cards before. I figured that the marking of my birthday would be…